Nobody should be denied the right to vote, or face additional hurdles because of a strategic method to disenfranchise them. Just as no one should be racially profiled, no one should be racially blocked from the voting booth.
You Can Touch My Hair was a way of telling those who have stolen a touch how it makes me feel -- like an object put on display. But I also wanted to use it as an opportunity to further understand why someone might think that act or solicitation is okay and why black hair is such a novelty.
You would think that Eric Holder, the first African American Attorney General, and Barack Obama, the first African American President, would be vigilant that there was no racial discrimination in the Justice Department of their Administration. You would think.
There is no political correctness in my rant. Just facts. Without diversity, there is no hip-hop, even if you choose to call it that. Hip-hop is not a reality TV show. Hip-hop is not a pair of pants sagging. Hip-hop has founders, innovation, and purpose.
With legitimate lethal terrorist threats that the U.S. faces, the FBI must play a front line role in monitoring potential terrorist activities and nipping them in the bud. But the history of over reach and outright law breaking by the FBI and other government agencies still looms large.
While school system governance, school choice and school closings have dominated recent discussions about school reform, the beginning of summer break is a perfect time to highlight the impact summer learning loss has on efforts to close achievement gaps.
I live in a world where I didn't hear someone romantically call me desirable until I was 26. I live in a world where either body privilege or racial privilege is always against me. So I point my camera at my face and I click. I am what some would call ugly, but I don't see it.
Black history deserves to be regarded highly as well as we would anything else sacred in our society... let's please start treating it as such.
As our world changes, it will be important for us to expand our ideas and expectations of leadership, leadership models and who we see as leaders.
If you want to go the unveiling of the Frederick Douglass statue this Wednesday at 11 a.m. in the United States Capitol Visitor Center's Emancipation Hall, don't bother: You're not invited.
While more students generally attend racially and economically diverse schools, it is no secret that our schools are anything but unitary.
In honor of Father's Day I want to share the most important, financial lesson I've learned to date. It's one that my dad taught me and is the reason I am The Budgetnista. The Bike Story...
Most kids my age back then didn't see the importance of having a father or father-figure in their lives; they were more concerned about escaping the hood. While it is a valid mindset to have in a city known for handgun murders, most stemming from where I grew up, I could never replace my dad.
Dr. Cosby is continuously making it harder for me to vouch for him. A recent piece by the entertainer titled "A Plague Called Apathy" has a slice of the black media and blogosphere up in arms, and the other part looking at him askance with a serious side-eye.
"This is not a black thing, this is not a white thing. This is not a poor thing, this is not a rich thing. This is not a Christian or Jewish or Muslim thing. What hurts one person, hurts us all."
For too long we've exclusively emphasized punishment for non-violent offenders over treatment and rehabilitation. The current system is unbalanced, unsustainable, and unnecessarily cruel. It's time to legalize or at the very least, decriminalize all drugs.
It seems like what's happening here is that Miley Cyrus "loves" "hood" culture, thinks it's amusing and has no problem co-opting it for singles and/or viral videos, but doesn't love the idea of herself being seen as part of it. And that's gross.
The targeting of Blacks and Latinos through biased law enforcement practices has split our state in half -- where the New York you live in depends on factors such as race, ethnicity and socioeconomic status
How do we reconcile the explicit messages we present to black gay men countering homophobia and HIV stigma with the messages we imply through our HIV closets? Where is the integrity in challenging gay men to relinquish their imbedded shame as we demonstrate and justify our own?
Daddy-O, 2013.18.06
Jason Williams, 2013.17.06

I've hosted dinner parties for celebrities, ranging from the sexy chocolate Idris Elba to the charmingly, unpredictable Solange. As the creator of Dinner With Bevy, a unique service that hosts one-of-a-kind dinner parties for marquee names, it's my job to create festive and chic environments where celebs can enjoy themselves and make valuable business and press contacts. Through my work, I've learned quite a bit about the art of throwing a perfect dinner party. It's not rocket science, especially if you follow a few simple guidelines.
Some people think that hosting a dinner party is difficult and are often intimidated at the thought of it. Clients have even asked for a cocktail party instead. Cocktail events are nice, but if you want to connect people, there's nothing better than breaking bread with a person to foster a relationship. Some of you might be thinking it sounds "bourgie," but it doesn't have to be. I've had dinners morph into dance parties with Sanaa Lathan leading a Michael Jackson sing-a-long or a top editor "winding" with Ashanti to reggae! The evening starts with you, the host. You set the tone for the night and are responsible for how it will be remembered! No matter how delicious the food, plentiful the drink or gorgeous the decor, it's the fellow guests who will cause people to rave about a successful dinner party.
Bevy Smith is the creater of Dinner With Bevy -- a unique party-planning and hosting service for celebrities. She is also a fashion and lifestyle correspondent for TVOne and BET and a writer whose work has appeared in Paper, Interview and Glamour.
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By: ADMR on 4/23/2010 9:23PM
Picture PERFECT - Wink!
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By: Kimberly Hoyle on 4/25/2010 12:43PM
Thanks for the tips! Perfect!
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By: BeLuxe on 4/25/2010 1:41PM
Such a need for something like this and glad it is here....I would love to hear more about food presentation as I would like do a safe "Southern Comfort" type theme for my soul food only friends - but I would like to make the presentation look chic + cute (no foil chaffing dishes if you know what I mean) - Also - what are some great activities that will keep people entertained and excited for the next invite? Love that Michael Jackson sing along!!!
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By: Johnica Reed on 4/25/2010 12:56PM
Great tips! Love the focus on using the guest list to create new relationships. Bevy is definitely THE conduit.
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By: Marsha Mitchell-Bray on 4/25/2010 1:33PM
I have had the privilege of breaking bread with Ms. Bevy, she knows what she's talking about!
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By: Dr. Renee on 4/25/2010 1:58PM
This was a wonderful article. I am going to definitely put these tips to good use. Thank you.
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By: Kimberly on 4/25/2010 4:05PM
I've seen Ms. Bevy on a host of programs sharing her insight on everything from the glam lifestyle of celebrities to urban chic fashions. This is another great forum for her expertise. This was hilarious... and useful!
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By: Garnell Shumate on 4/25/2010 7:39PM
Bevy! What an awesome piece! I enjoyed all of your tips and there are definitely a few pointers that I must implement ASAP (dressing like the "help" lol!) Loved it! Can't wait to read more.
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By: Andrea on 4/26/2010 10:32AM
Wonderful and practical tips for a chic and classy affair. Thanks Bevy! Love the champagne flutes at the door with Sade in the background...
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